Are You Holding Yourself “Hostage” Somewhere Inside? Discover The Instant Shift That Can Powerfully Open Your Path And Attract Love And Positivity…
One of the most instant things you can do to raise your vibration, open up to love and more positivity in your life is to forgive yourself. I know, it’s almost “too obvious” – we often think big changes have to happen through drama…
So I completely get it if you think the effects of this simple shift “to good to be true” – but forgiveness is in so many ways a miracle worker, as it releases negativity and opens to a new state almost immediately.
It has the power to change your whole world from the “inside out”! Most of us don’t fully realize how much hurt and negative energy we direct at ourselves every day that blocks us from our true happiness and from moving forward.
How Forgiving YOURSELF Can Completely Change Your Life
Unfortunately, holding negativity inside prevents us from opening up to others and fully be AVAILABLE to and present with love…
Think about it: It’s a habit most of us have, to keep an internal directory of all the mistakes we’ve made throughout life and all the things we should have done differently…
Maybe we believed someone who turned out to be lying to us and we ‘should’ have known better, maybe someone gave us a chance and we didn’t make the most of it when it mattered, maybe we feel that we won’t measure up to the ideals we hold for ourselves, and maybe deep inside we just plain don’t like ourselves very much…
And unfortunately this keeps us stuck in a low vibration, constricting our path and our true potential – in love, at work, with friends… When we hold ourselves “hostage” with negativity, it impacts everything in our lives.
Rarely do we think about this consciously; these issues tend to come in the form of the proverbial skeletons in the closet, the invisible list of wrongs and lacks and flaws that stay in the background most of the time – the problem is we don’t tend to realize how much this inner score-board of negativity actually affects us.
In reality this kind of pattern will hold us in a self-made emotional prison until we decide to break free once and for all – realize that you held the key all this time. You are who you choose to be, not who you’ve been told you are or what the past dictates. Every moment is a fresh start, so make the most of it.
Holding onto past hurts and a self-image based in lack, guilt or shame prevents us from moving forward, and above all it’s notorious for messing up our relationships because we end up projecting negativity onto the other person, subconsciously expecting them to reject us for any or all of the “proven reasons” on our list of self-judgments.
And unfortunately, it often becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. As pioneer of psychoanalysis, Carl Jung, said: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
So the most important and loving thing you’ll ever do for yourself is to let it go. Forgive yourself. The past is gone. And any mistake you ever made taught you valuable lessons that enabled you to grow as a person.
In this moment, you are who you are now, not who you were then. And another thing: who among us keeps an internal score of all the good things we’ve done? Maybe we should!
(I help you with this process of self discovery, healing and transformation in the Love Blueprint Program here. And make sure you download my Free Heart Activation Session as an introduction to my methods.)
One of the challenges of forgiveness comes when our negative emotions and judgments are so entrenched in our system that it feels “impossible” to let go.
That’s when energy clearing methods make a massive difference – when we go in and clear and re-calibrate your frequency, you’ll be freed from the “baggage” that’s kept negativity in place.
When you come together with a love partner (especially a soul connection) all barriers are torn down: if you do what you can to be content with yourself and happy on the inside even when you’re all alone, you will align yourself with positivity and bring out unconditional love in your relationship.
If you hold yourself in lack and negativity, that’s what you’ll bring out around others – your unconscious patterns of negativity will keep being triggered and brought up until you face and resolve them.
So, are you willing to forgive yourself? Comment below with any insights and experiences you have with this so we can share and inspire each other.
You are here to experience amazing things! Remember how worthy you are. I believe in you!
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I really hope you found this article helpful – do let me know in the comments below if you have questions on how to apply the steps, or any other issues you need insights on.
As always, I’m sending you love and light for your journey!
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