“Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences,penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.”
—Maya Angelou
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KEY POINTS FROM MODULE 8
Moving love into the real world – making room for your ideal
partner and relationshipWhat practical things in your life might need to shift in order for you to really be ready and open to love and your ideal partner? Really take a look at your life situation with fresh eyes and be honest:Is there really ROOM for your ideal lover and relationship in your life? If not, how can you adjust this?
Moving out of the past, clearing out old items, making room for your ideal partner in your garage, your closet… Preparing for your dream come true: Get your hair done, buy new bedsheets, bring in a beautiful poster or painting, buy some essential oils to feel sensually refreshed, get a new outfit for coming dates, renew your passport to symbolize a new start and invite in your desired partner…
What real life actions can you take to invite in love NOW?
(For good deals and giveaway options, check Craigslist, eBay, Amazon, your local thrift store or garage sale – ask your intuition to guide you to what serves you best)
Falling in love with life itself – What might have been blocking you from deeper satisfaction and from receiving and experiencing your dream come true?
Checking in with your Heart Garden – updating and uplifting your Love Blueprint PLUS sowing seeds of positive manifestations
What makes you feel good, makes you manifest good. You’re born with an innate system that helps you get to where you want to go: Your feelings.
Now we’ve cleared out a lot of negativity, you become more and more able to focus in on your “compass”.
Manifestation Advice:
Energy works like this: what you focus on, you attract. Make sure you’re in the excitement of it, knowing that this person is out there – because this attracts very powerfully.
Many people make the mistake of focusing on the sadness of not having their dream yet – that the dream is “out there” and far away.
The problem with this is this energy and focus keeps matching you up with more of not having it yet, more of your dream being far away.
So be in the excitement of it, feel the enjoyment of knowing that you’re drawing love to you powerfully, every minute. Expect it.
You have now claimed your desires in the meditation session. Make sure you stay open to it showing up tangibly, and this means, keep your thinking and speaking positive and open to results. Everything we say is an affirmation.
If we say things like “affirmations don’t work for me,” or “things never change” that’s an affirmation, that draws more of those very things to us.
So keep things positive by affirming what you desire. Things like: “My positive manifestations are growing day by day. I am more and more open to love.” Check out the affirmations audio included with this program for a fun and easy way to do this.
A Baby Step Into Dating
After all this is a program for love and relationships, so we want to get you to where love can find you!
If you’re already with someone:
Do set aside some time for a romantic date and I’d suggest you act like it’s a first date, ask each other questions and really get to know each other again.
There are some great conversation starter quizzes online with questions suited for dates. This can be a really fun thing to do, especially if you’ve grown used to each other and want to liven things up a bit!
If you’re currently single:
I would suggest you begin browsing. Mention to a friend or colleague you trust that you would be open to going for coffee with someone new if the opportunity arose… And let the universe begin to bring the right opportunities to you.
I would suggest you also sign up to a respected dating site and begin seeing who’s out there. Begin “browsing” and pick out at least 5-10 people you would consider going on a date with, even if it’s just to have coffee together.
My top advice is to go with your intuition. If you feel curious about someone, or like there’s something intriguing or enticing about them you’re not quite able to put your finger on, look closer. This is your intuition talking.
There are also interest-specific dating sites such as spiritual/alternative lifestyle dating, sites based on astrological compatibility and more, so go ahead and see what appeals most to you…
For a first look, there are so many members to “browse” and these organizations have successfully matched up so many couples through decades of operation. They also organize group events where members can attend and mingle… Two friends of mine happily met their husbands through one of these services!
PLAY EXERCISES:
1) Mapping Out the Future: What will your ideal love be like?
Write down 20 things about your ideal lover. Begin like this: “My ideal lover is …”
Get into the feeling energy of this person existing, being on their way to you.
Send love to this person every night before you go to sleep, knowing that your intention is making it happen. This will powerfully draw them to you more and more!
If you are already with someone or are desiring to draw back a former lover you already know, focus on their best qualities, what you love and appreciate the most about them. And send this person love every night before you go to sleep. This will also have a powerful effect on your connection!
Use the Creative Visualization audio included with this program (Module 10), for an immersive, technicolor journey to your ideal love situation. For best results, use it regularly and in a space where you won’t be disturbed.
2) Your Ideal Relationship: Living Your Bliss Now
Write down 20 things about your ideal relationship. Begin like this: “My relationship with my ideal partner is …”
Begin to collect pictures and notes around this. Really get into the excitement of it. Find songs that capture the feeling of this relationship, collect images on your phone or computer or in a scrapbook that shows the activities you’ll do together, the places you’ll travel to, where you’ll live together, the kinds of dates you’ll go on.
For best results don’t share this with others as their opinions and energetic intent can get involved in a way that works against you. Know that when you focus on your ideal relationship, the universe “hears” you and will begin to put forces in motion to draw this more and more to you.
Have fun with these exercises! You are a creative being, and when you shape your energy to attract something, the universe powerfully responds. These methods have been used by sages and leaders since ancient times – and modern day research shows that Creative Visualization is an incredibly powerful method (read more about the science and facts behind this here).
See this time like a fresh start where you get to choose your new life bit by bit – you don’t have to focus on how or when these things will happen for now (we’ll get to that more and more later, I’ve got your back, promise).
Ask your inner critic to please take a step back while you enjoy these fun exercises, and you will get back to it later with any info it may need. Realism can take a time out for now. In fact it’s essential, as realism blocks new results from showing up (realism actually means we believe it’s only truthful to think things will stay the same! So I’m sure you see that realism will only hamper this process)
For now, skip right to focusing on your dreams and goals themselves as if they’ve already happened and enjoy the excitement of choosing your ideals! This is a super booster for your attraction, your love, your bliss.
Until next time! xoxo
P.S If you for any reason experience heaviness or triggering after a clearing session, know that this simply means you have begun to shift old negativity and that a block is moving out of your system – what you’re feeling is the old stagnant negativity moving out, which is great! Know 100% that it gets easier and easier along the way, and there are simple ways to address any discomfort if it should occur.
To remedy: If you feel any discomfort, make sure you connect to the light 300 feet up and down to the center of the planet – visualize yourself standing in a pillar of light, and allow the light to vacuum out of you any of the negativity that’s being released until you feel a shift. Allow yourself to stay connected to the light at all times so that it supports you and helps you shift out of negativity by vacuuming it out on an ongoing basis. Allow the light to fill your entire being with a feeling of safety, warmth, comfort. Know that any discomfort is temporary.
To help your system integrate the new upgrades and changes and shifts, it is highly beneficial to drink a lot of water (8 big glasses a day is recommended) in order to oxygenate your physical cells and help flush out any toxins from the physical plane of your being. Getting plenty of rest, and making sure you do some mild exercise regularly also helps you shift out of the “baggage” with more ease. Showers are also very healing, and you might want to visualize showers of divine light “cleaning” your energetic being while the water rinses your body.
You can always call on your higher self to help make the process of shifting out of negativity as blissful and
happy and swift as possible. Lastly, please know that triggering and heaviness is not common after energy clearings, and do not fear that you’ll suffer “side effects”. For the most part, it is completely hassle-free.
Remember that you’re an infinite being and any negativity is simply “dust bunnies” you’re clearing out of your being – it’s not dangerous in any way! You’re of course allowed to have a break if you feel like you need some time to integrate the changes and upgrades. Use your intuition to guide you, and know that over time your vibration will be rising and rising, bringing you into alignment with more and more positivity!