The Divine Reason Why You’re Longing For More, And How To Draw In Your Desires Tangibly, Physically, For “Real”…
Every single day I get contacted by prospective clients and readers looking to improve their situation – whether it’s about love, money, friendships, career or health…Many times I’ve been in this situation myself, seeking solutions.
And I know the worst thing about wanting more, is the pervasive feeling and impression that it may not be possible.
HAVING a dream or a goal is amazing! The feeling of wanting something is thrilling, blissful!
But when the MIND kicks in with realism, past experiences gone wrong and what we’ve seen and heard about other people and their troubles…It can turn into PAIN in a single split second.
Feeling like our dream is OUT OF REACH as soon as we begin, is one of the heaviest feelings I’ve ever encountered…
And it’s something I love to help people with – to show that there really IS a path to our desires as long as we know how to align with our power, manage energy and mindset wisely and take action on our intuitive guidance.
Because YES, your dreams are possible!
And I’m sure you think that sounds like an exaggeration, to put it mildly. Who wouldn’t, right? So let me give you some examples of things humanity used to think were IMPOSSIBLE:
*Curing various lethal diseases used to seem like a distant dream… But today, diseases that once were lethal are now completely curable or preventable! Including HIV/AIDS!
*A black president – Not so long ago, people all around the world thought that it was “impossible” that the USA would ever have a president of color, but in 2008 Barack Obama proved the naysayers wrong… And won two consecutive terms.
*Electricity – Go back 300 years, and you could have been burned on the stake if you suggested that we could get heat, light, cooling and energy right out of our WALLS! But now, we use electricity for almost EVERYTHING in our lives – including the computer or phone you’re reading this on!
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*Air travel – back in the 1800s or before, the idea of hundreds of people flying through the air in carriages made of aluminum (which didn’t even exist back then), would have sounded completely crazy! And now, millions of people fly every single day…
*Pocket computers aka your smartphone! Just a little over a decade ago it would have seemed like science fiction, all the stuff you’re able to do on your phone these days… Watching movies, having a library of access to tens and thousands of songs, video chatting with people, being on the internet constantly… And now here we are
*Other social changes that people used to think were impossible include women getting the vote, slavery being abolished, birth control pills allowing people to choose how many children they had…
*Once you begin to look into it, the list of things we’ve MADE POSSIBLE as a species is pretty huge…! And, doesn’t it make you wonder what may lie ahead? Including for YOU as a person?
Our lives are always evolving and often, positivity is right around the corner even if we don’t SEE it yet…
For Every “Impossible” Thing Made Commonplace, Someone Chose To Not Believe It Was Out Of Reach…
And the amazing thing is (this makes me feel a bit teary with gratitude) that for every leap humanity has made out of “IMPOSSIBLE” and into “NORMAL”…SOMEONE had to choose not to accept the idea of impossibility.
Some BRAVE person out there felt in their heart or their gut, that there was more.
And they began questioning, and pondering, and researching, and eventually developed those things we now enjoy in our modern lives… (Just imagine how many people DIDN’T heed the call for more and aligned with the idea that change was out of reach, to just give up without trying…)
So that feeling you have? The longing for more? That’s your soul’s message to you, your intuition saying that it IS possible. That you SHOULD reach for more.
The longing itself is a clear sign that you’re being pulled in that direction. To go there, to reach for it, to call it in with your energy, mind and emotions and then make it a physical reality…
The pain comes when we accept the world’s message of “impossible.” When you have a dream and then feel the pain of it being out of reach, it’s you aligning your energy with the falsehood that it can’t happen… And your soul tries to signal to you through your emotions, that it is not true. The idea that it’s out of reach, is a falsehood.
So today I really wanted to reach out and help you pick that lock. To tune into what your intuition, your soul has been trying to tell you:
When you have a DREAM it’s for a REASON.
Through coaching and extensive research I’ve discovered that when we look at things from a higher perspective there really is a method to what nearly always feels like madness.
Where you’re at, having a desire, it may feel confusing and discouraging to see how on earth you could ever make your way there.
But I have distilled this process into a sequence of 6 steps.
Powerful yet simple steps you can take to call in major change in your life – no matter where you’re at right now:
#1) Accept That Something More Is Possible…
I hope this article is helping you with that already. Because the amazing thing is, when we open to the IDEA of something more being possible, our whole perspective and alignment changes. We begin to notice opportunities, steps to take, possibilities that we were blind to when we thought it was out of reach.
Like a long dark highway, the lights begin to show up the road before us, step by step…
To call in change, it’s very important to be aware of what you want and how you want it to be. List it out, map it in a diagram, draw it or write it, speak it into your phone… Get it out into “reality.” This is a powerful action of creation in the universe.
And in scientific terms, it’s been proven that people who write down their goals are much more likely to achieve them. (You can read more about that here).
Because if you don’t know exactly what you want, how can the universe deliver it?
Or, in practical terms, how can your subconscious mind and your faculties zero in on how to get something you’re not sure what is?
So write out 5 things you want, right now. Please don’t focus on HOW you’ll get there or the steps there. The most important thing to begin with is setting your aim. The steps will begin to show up. If you get worried about HOW to get there you begin to block it from happening, so instead of letting your mind derail you, move into the next step:
#3) Focus On What It Would Feel Like To Have It Now
Getting into the feeling of having your desires NOW, is one of the fastest ways of manifesting something into your life.
I’ve done this myself and have had tons of clients write to me about how effective this method is. Creative visualization is an amazing (and easy) way to do this
When you’re doing this it’s really important to distinguish between the feeling of HAVING it now and sadness that you feel it’s in the future.
Say you’re wanting to call in an amazing boyfriend… If you feel sad or low when you try to feel into it, it means fear and worry is blocking you – you still feel afraid it can’t or won’t happen… But that’s OK because the next step is especially designed to not only combat that, but to remove those feelings and blocks so your dream CAN arrive in a tangible way.
The human mind and emotional system is ANCIENT. Really, when you look into it we are cousins of the animals and I’m sure you’ve seen how fear-driven most animals are. Where a dog or cat gets freaked out if you bring a new toy or a stranger into their surroundings…
There is a part of our brains that are ancient, primal – where any CHANGE is considered a threat.
This is the part of our brain, the so-called amygdala, which is ancient and driven by emotions. It’s not conscious or reasonable, it’s designed to protect us from danger above all. Back when our ancient ancestors were running from mammoths and sabre tooth tigers, this was crucial to survival… But for us in our modern lives, this old pattern of fearing danger can cause MAJOR blocks to manifesting change and attracting love. Because that deep-seated part of us wants most of all to stay SAFE and any change is considered a potential DANGER!
So what happens is, when we set a HUGE intention or begin focusing on a BIG CHANGE or desire we want… This part of our brain begins to kick in to try to talk us out of it. And this will most often feel like fear, worry, panic, anger, upset, irritation…
And if left to its own devices this primal part of our system will do its best to revert us back to what’s considered safe (i.e. what we know we’ve already survived, no matter how hard it was).
Therefore, when we’re calling in change it’s super important to get to grips with this. My modalities are created to de-activate the emotional charges that create this MASSIVE RESISTANCE that blocks most people from having their dreams come true.
I take you through it step by step in my Free Heart Activation Energy Healing Session.In the session we cleanse out old blocks and free your path up to a new and higher state – so you’re aligned with RECEIVING your desired change and goals.
#5) Take Action On Your Guidance
Even if you’ve never considered yourself intuitive or remotely “gifted” spiritually, your body and your system is always signalling to you.
When you begin to pay attention you’ll notice there is always help and support working to reach you. Whether it’s repeating symbols and numbers or books you keep seeing, information that keeps showing up in various forms…You are always receiving guidance.
When we set our goals, we begin to receive guidance on how to reach them. This ALWAYS happens.
Sometimes we’re too stuck in our ways to really notice that guidance but it’s always present. Begin to pay attention, treat it like a treasure hunt… Look for the next step, and it will be revealed.
And when it does, be sure to take action on that guidance. Because that’s what will take you closer and closer to that goal. Step by step, you’ll get there. I would advise you to ALWAYS be an active part in showing up change and your dreams come true – because YOU are the center of your world and you are a powerful agent of change in your life.
#6) Stay In Your Power
Because when we set our intentions to call in something big, there are nearly always “BAD GUYS” who show up in varied forms to try to pull us off course…
Things like your well-meaning friends who may try to talk you out of it being possible, dreams of the past, emotional upsets, being triggered by images/information/emotions in social media, old hurts rising to the surface, your own unconscious system’s old habitual reactions of doubt, skepticism and fear…
So staying in your power is crucial. Like I said, this is not always easy but it’s 100% possible.
Staying in your power in this process looks like: Keeping your eye on the ball, staying focused on your GOALS not negativity, staying CONSCIOUS of where emotions and old patterns may be clouding your perspective, not allowing negativity to derail you… Staying in your power in this process may involve being forgiving of yourself, focusing on self love and pampering your body, making sure you stay away from what triggers you, doing research on action steps to take to get to your desires tangibly…
Above all, remember that most fear is “False Evidence Appearing Real” – when fear shows up, it’s our brains interpreting the future as being dangerous.
When fear shows up, ask “what is it REALLY I’m afraid of here?” Because most often it’s the fear of a past hurt happening again. Stay aware and you can rise into a higher state for the long run.
The amazing thing about this Step By Step Process to Calling In Major Change, is that it can work for ANYONE! It’s made to be applied to YOUR life where you’re at right now, like a compass that adjusts to YOUR unique position!
Simply apply the 6 steps and repeat as needed. And sometimes after the initial run it may look like 1-4-6-5 or 4-5-4-5 instead of 1-2-3-4-5-6 – and that’s completely OK. Apply the steps as needed and they will ALWAYS help you get to where you want to go, to call in and manifest tangible change, no matter where you’re at right now!
I’ve seen so many people change their situation for the better with these key steps and through working on raising their vibration into a higher state. Have a look here for some of their stories.
I hope you found this article helpful! Do let me know in the comments below if you have questions or have experiences to share. I can’t wait to hear from you!
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